It’s no secret that I’m an atheist; it’s just one facet of who I am. I’m not particularly bothered if you choose to have a religion; that’s your business and nothing to do with me. As an atheist, I just don’t believe in a god or follow a religion. I do talk about atheism and share thoughts on religion, but usually with like-minded people or people that have specifically asked me what I think. I generally don’t tell religious people, unsolicited, why I think they shouldn’t be religious. I don’t seek out religious people to criticise or dissect their beliefs. I don’t seek them out to list all the reasons I think they should abandon their faith.
I don’t do all of that for a few reasons.
- It’s largely pointless. If someone has a strong faith, nothing I say will change it. They need to question it themselves for it to change.
- I can’t speak for all atheists but generally, I don’t “recruit”. If someone wants to ask questions, they will.
- It’s not up to me to instruct people in what they should think and feel. That seems presumptuous and kinda rude.